Thread:Bheadr27/@comment-25828071-20141207142436/@comment-25819845-20150406200556

Bheadr27 wrote: No, much to my regret, I don't have a child. I'd truly love to have one, but it hasn't happened yet... sighs... but at least I have a godchild and his little brother ^^

Uhh... sounds like really longsome negotiations... But if the woman isn't forced to marry it's a good thing. And it's a good thing, that there are requirements for both sides. Noone should start a family without the safety of a job and a home. You know what the things a woman brings into the new householt was called in german? 'Aussteuer' - endowment. My Grandma used to tell me about hers and felt she was obliged to buy me Linon, towels and the like for mine... not necessarily my taste... but it was sweet of her nontheless ^^ we call it Jahaz, my mum has bought me a 32 piece of cooking pot! and a lot staff i saw most of them. actually most of our storage is my jahaz.!

in afghanistan and some other country i heard there is force marrige, it is awfull. and how they can make their girls to do such that?!

here both side should be agree, and their parents(most times).

how is being godmother?(i hope it is written right)